I'm crying now too! Jessica you are so very dear to each of us and it breaks my heart to think of you being sad and lonely when you return home. It is so very obvious how much you miss Kaity and how much you thoroughly enjoyed spending time with Miss Smilie and I hope that it really warmed your sad heart to hug her and spend that precious time with her and all the MPS babies. I wish there was something, anything I could do to take away even a small part of your pain but it is that pain that makes you the strong, caring and beautiful individual that you are to each of our families. I feel so blessed to have crossed paths in life and can not wait to hug and surely cry with you in person!!!!
((((((((((((HUGS FOR NOW)))))))))))))))))

Brenda Haggett <jhrufus@aol.com>
Syracuse, New York USA - Sunday, October 31, 2004 2:10 PM CST


Jess, You are so precious to us because -you do and have always- truely understood, by sharing your joy and love in Kaity as well as the hard times.Thanks again for all your help to us MPS parents we really are family xxxxxLaura
Laura Brodie <labro4will@yahoo.co.uk>
Birmingham, England - Sunday, October 31, 2004 8:08 AM CST


Crying as I type! I don't know if words can ever express my love and the admiration I feel for you! Even though I never meet Kaity-Bug in life she will always hold a special place in my heart, as will you! You have made such a difference in my life and all the families your dedication and love has touched! Thank you for sharing Kaity in life and your pain in her death. Your caring bridge site means more to me than you will ever know!!! I pray for you every night and I am blessed to call you my friend!

Love and Hugs

Tami ( www.caringbridge.com/ca/slawson ) <TLSlawson@aol.com>
La Verne, CA - Friday, October 29, 2004 9:11 PM CDT


Click your heels three times Jess and turn around and Calif. you will be going. Loved the Pics.
Art <ArtHolb@aol.com>
- Tuesday, October 26, 2004 8:05 PM CDT


Jess -it didn't sound mad about Kaity's grave-its just how I think I would feel(hugs).Hope your enjoying your trip love and kisses Laura x
Laura Brodie <labro4will@yahoo.co.uk>
Birmingham, England - Monday, October 25, 2004 1:52 PM CDT


Wow! Great Pictures! I felt as if I was there with you all in Calif. Of course having Alli in so many of them touched me the most!! Again Jessica, Thanx for sharing with my family.

Smiles, Janelle (Alli's Nana)

Janelle Kunellis <shoe111550@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, October 24, 2004 0:58 AM CDT


Jessice, What a wonderful pic of you and my Granddaughter! I heard so much about you from the girls when they returned. THANK YOU for being such a strong support for my daughter. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Kaitlynn every day.

Smiles, Janelle (Alli's Nana)

Janelle Kunellis <shoe111550@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, October 23, 2004 8:43 AM CDT


Reading over your entries has reminded me that I need to send in my registration for Disney. We are SO ready for it, and I am very happy that you will be there. You are a brave woman and I look forward to meeting you in person.

Laura Burke <burkenc@charter.net>
Asheville, NC - Friday, October 22, 2004 8:42 PM CDT


Hello Jessica, I loved the picture of you and Allison. I was standing right next to you when the picture was taken and it reminded me of Reilene always being so curious. I'm glad you had a good time in CA. I hope to meet you again. Hugs and kisses.
Gabrielle Rivas <gabbi_001@msn.com>
Southe El Monte, CA USA - Friday, October 22, 2004 1:04 AM CDT


Jess,
I just love the picture of you and Alli! I am so glad you were able to go to California and see everyone. Are you going to hop on another plane and come down to Houston for the walk/run on the 30th?? You can stay with us! Thinking of you as always.
Love,

Kim Downham <jdownahm@earthlink.net http://www3.caringbridge.org/tx/tywalker/>
Houston, TX - Tuesday, October 19, 2004 11:21 PM CDT


hi jess
just wanted to stop by and check to see how your trip went love the pic with u and ali.i would love to meet her and her mom also.she lookes so cute i would love to get a hug from her.i hope you are doing good and i will check back soon.hugs and kisses kathy and katilynn

kathy and katilynn preston <katilynnsmom@yahoo.com>
tomahawk, ky usa - Tuesday, October 19, 2004 6:18 PM CDT


Jessica,

Sorry I haven't been leaving my e-mail address. I come here to see how you are doing and to remind myself of what is important in life. I never wanted anything in return - you don't have to thank me! Sharing your journey was thanks enough.

I actually don't live close anymore. I'm up in Cleveland - the great frozen tundra. Although I visit my parents (they live behind Providence High School) about every 5-6 weeks. I have to. My mom and sister would string me up if they didn't get to see my girls.

My girls are 6 and 2 and were both adopted from China. My 6 yr old is my hero. I'm simply in awe of her strength, character, compassion, intelligence and beauty. My 2 yr old is....well....TWO. LOL Such a little stinker! We are heavy in the tantrum stage so that wears me out a bit. But, when I look in her deep, black eyes, my soul melts. Both of my girls are my life. That is why I admire your courage and strength. I'm not sure I could survive - or would want to - if I lost one of them.

Anyway, I just wanted to pop in here and say Hi. I will leave my e-mail address this time.

Take care!

Beth <elieber@bio.ri.ccf.org>
- Tuesday, October 19, 2004 9:26 AM CDT


Jessica,. I read about kaity and it break my heart. Love to know you have fun at MPS walk.
You will be in my prayers.
www.helpourgirls.com

Tayyaba <tayyaba@helpourgirls.com>
NJ - Tuesday, October 19, 2004 9:14 AM CDT


Jess, that is the sweetest picture of you and Alli. I'm glad you had such a wonderful time in California.
Love Ya,
Kris and Kraiggy
Kraig's Journal

Kris Klenke <kris@mpssociety.org ** www.caringbridge.org/il/kraig/ **>
Worden, IL - Tuesday, October 19, 2004 6:22 AM CDT


Jess~ I am so happy we got the chance to spend the weekend together! My girls think you are the BEST! Thank you so much for the wonderful presents you gave to all of us! I know the weekend was a little hard for you, there were a few times I saw you looking at Alli with tears in your eyes and I knew you were missing your Kaity-bug.(((HUGS))) I want you to know how much it means to me that you love my baby and all the other MPS/ML babies too. Thank you for all you do.
Love you!
Jenn

Jennifer Restemayer <jennmarie@bis.midco.net>
Bismarck, ND USA - Monday, October 18, 2004 10:24 PM CDT


Hi Jess,
Just thinking about you today!
Love and prayers your way!!!

Brenda Haggett <jhrufus@aol.com>
Syracuse, N USA - Monday, October 18, 2004 3:14 PM CDT


Jess, I have really missed chating with you. I hope that you are doing well. Look forward to catching up on your journal. Talk with you soon. Hugs to the whole family.
Jennifer, Joshua, & Jacob Burt <J_Burt9800@yahoo.com>
Walla Walla , WA USA - Sunday, October 17, 2004 10:04 PM CDT


Jessica, Thank you for posting such a sweet picture of Andrew on Kaity's web site, and asking her to watch over our MPS children. I am glad he was able to comfort you during your time of saddnes.
Sharon Cochenour <scochenour@hotmail.com>
Clarksburg, Ohio USA - Sunday, October 17, 2004 2:30 AM CDT


Hello Jessica, I met you today. You also met my children Reilene and Nikkolas. I was reading your journal and I hope that I can be half as strong as your are. I never got the pleasure of meeting your angel, but I miss and love her just the same. Hugs and kisses.
Gabrielle Rivas <gabbi_001@msn.com>
Southe El Monte, CA USA - Saturday, October 16, 2004 10:06 PM CDT


Jess, you know all the right words to express you feelings. It has been awhile since I have read you journal entries, and you never cease to amaze me. I just wanted to say I am thinking of you and everytime I see a butterfly, even on TV or in a book, I think of Kaity bug and Moriah and I alwasy smile and say "hello girls". Yes the passers by think I am crazy for saying hello to butterflies but I don't care :) Please call me anytime.
Love,
Misty

Misty Van Nostrand <coreyvannostrand@netscape.net>
Lawrence, KS USA - Thursday, October 14, 2004 9:17 PM CDT


Hi!
Just want to say hello. I think you are a great person Jessica! You shall know that I am thinking of you. I never met Kaity but I miss her. Hugs

Vibeke Hovd <vibekehovd@hotmail.com>
Near Trondheim, Norway - Wednesday, October 13, 2004 1:38 PM CDT


I love reading your journal entries. I too, love Courage and wonder those same things about my Lindsey also. I don't think any of us will ever be ready - no matter how long/short the journey, how much we try to prepare. I admire and respect you so much. You have given so many of us the courage to face each day, mainly because of the Forum. I check/read it each day. You were the perfect one to be chosen as the first "volunteer spotlight". Keep pressing on...Kaity Bug is with you. kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net *and* www.caringbridge.org/nc/lindseysmpsjourney>
Albemarle , NC USA - Tuesday, October 12, 2004 9:13 PM CDT


Jessica -I'm so glad Andrew was able to 'deliver'kisses from Kaity and you got comfort at the run.I'm sorry for your 'bad' day -know we are thinking of you on this little island! love and Hugs Laura x
Laura Brodie <labro4will@yahoo.co.uk>
Birmingham, England - Tuesday, October 12, 2004 1:07 PM CDT



"Reach for the moon. The worst that can happen - you'll fall among the stars."
- Unknown

praying for you today and always,
(((((hugs)))))
www.caringbridge.org/tx/dabrat

Keara <Kamethyst70@hotmail.com>
TX USA - Tuesday, October 12, 2004 7:03 AM CDT


Hi
I'm so sorry for what you're going through and I won't even pretend to understand any of it. But I'll be praying for you and keeping you in my thoughts. Take care.
~Joanne's Page~
Care Mail!

Joanne <joanne_173@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, October 12, 2004 7:03 AM CDT


Jess, you have such a way with words. As much as I hate what MPS does to our kids, I am at the some time grateful for the best friends I have made because of MPS. I can't imagine my life any differently, I can't imagine Kraig being any different. I'm so sorry about the lonely and sad days you have had, I wish I could do more to comfort you. You're never far from my thoughts. (((HUGS)))
Love Ya,
Kris and Kraiggy
Kraig's Journal

Kris Klenke <kris@mpssociety.org ** www.caringbridge.org/il/kraig/ **>
Worden, IL - Monday, October 11, 2004 5:30 PM CDT


Jessica,

I'm so sorry you are having such a hard time. There have been times in my life where I was caught off guard like you were on Wednesday. They are no fun and the pain is immeasurable. Again, I am so sorry.

Your last entry about wanting to do something to help people..........Jessica, you have already helped so many of us. By sharing Kaity's story, you have taught us the value of life. I kiss my babies more, I look at the sunsets more, I let the little things slide, I never miss an opportunity to tell the people I love how I feel about them. You helped show me those things. Kaity helped show me those things.

As I look at the most recent picture of Kaity carving the pumpkin, tears are once more streaming down my face. Such a precious smile. Such a beautiful littel face. Missing Kaity must be horrible but please know that her life has left an impact on us 'out here'. She helped remind me that love is the only thing that matters.

Please take care of yourself.

Beth
- Monday, October 11, 2004 8:43 AM CDT


hi jess
i love kaitys poster that you made that is so beauitful just like kaity is.kaity was lucky to have a mom like you.so loving and would do anything for her.i love her flowers by her grave those were se pretty.well i have to run will check back soon.please say a little prayer for my katilynn she is going on friday oct 15 to have a port put in so keep a little pray for us .talk to u soon love you and sending you hugs and kisses

kathy and katilynn preston <katilynnsmom@Yahoo.com>
tomahawk, ky 41262 - Wednesday, October 6, 2004 10:24 AM CDT


Jessica,

I have started to write here many times but never knew what to say. After seeing Kaity's scrapbook, I knew I had to write and tell you how beautiful she was/is.

When you wrote of Kaity's last hours, I smiled through my tears. The love Kaity had surrounding her was so evident. I wanted to write you and tell you...something...but I could never find the right words. I guess I still can't.

I grew up in Clarksville, graduated from IUS and had friends in Crandall. My whole family still lives near Greentree Mall.

I just wanted to tell you how beautiful I think Kaity is. Everytime I see her hand in yours, it brings tears to my eyes. What a sweet, precious angel.

Thanks you so much for sharing Kaity's journey with us.

Beth
- Tuesday, October 5, 2004 9:29 AM CDT


Dear Jessica,
I live in Dominican Republic and every day i turn my computer and enter Cati Marcus´s site. Today reading the gestbook I read your entry...All of you inspire me so much, your strenght is amazing, you teach us so much about life and faith, and about giving everything you have to the ones you love...GOD IS WATCHING OVER YOU!!!...i´ll say a prayer for Kaity, who´s spirit was uplifting...

Paula Valverde <pvalverde@ccresale.com>
Santo Domingo, Dom Rep - Tuesday, October 5, 2004 8:54 AM CDT


See I'm not the only one that says you should write!! You said I dont know what to write! Well it was awesome once again and once you sit down Jess it just comes to you as you type each and every word!
Kaity's Aunt Rhonda <rjapril!@insightbb.com>
Jeffersonville , IN - Tuesday, October 5, 2004 6:07 AM CDT


Jessica,
You should publish a book! Your writing is so inspirational. I think of you often. Kaity's butterfly picture is posted above Caterina's bed. I know she watches over all of us. With love and best wishes to all of you,

Claudina <claubonetti@aol.com>
Durham, NC - Monday, October 4, 2004 12:53 AM CDT


2 Weeks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Doing the Happy Dance!!!!

Tami <TLSlawson@aol.com>
- Saturday, October 2, 2004 10:32 PM CDT


Jess -your very right! I see lots of beautiful children ignored ,rejected day in day out -taken for granted -Maybe we are given a special gift as our eyes are opened by this horrible disease.We are blessed to make the most of whatever time we have with our little ones.love Laura xxx
Laura Brodie <labro4will@yahoo.co.uk>
Birmingham, England - Tuesday, September 28, 2004 11:50 AM CDT


Jess,
Thanks for sharing your story, It helps more than you could imagine. My daughter is not to the final stages of her disease but everyday I worry about that time so it is comforting to know other people go through the same emotions. Thanks for all the work and time you put into the forum.

Holly Weddell <weddell2031@hotmail.com>
Vallonia, IN USA - Tuesday, September 28, 2004 9:56 AM CDT


Hello Jessica and Brian,
The picture you have posted on the main page could be Edie last year. I enjoy sharing pictures such as it with my three year old who thinks that Edie's picture is everywhere on the "puter."
The story of Kaity's passing is spectacular. Thank you SO much for sharing it. I gives me hope for the future as I witness my little sweetie slowly slip away. You have been and continue to be an inspiration to those of us finding our way down the road of MPS.
Most sincerely,

Laura Burke <burkenc@charter.net>
Asheville, NC - Monday, September 27, 2004 9:44 AM CDT


Jess~ I know I still take some things for granted, even after ALli's diagnosis, but the moment a loved one is diagnosed with something this awful, the important things in your life do shine through! Congrats on reaching your goal with the sale! I can't wait to see you in Sunny CA~
Jennifer Restemayer <jennmarie@bis.midco.net>
Bismarck, ND USA - Monday, September 27, 2004 9:35 AM CDT


hello jessica and brain
i just wanted to stop by and check on you all and i wanted to let you know that you all are still in our prayers.we know kaity is sitting up there in heaven watching over your family.i wanted to also say to rhonda thank you so much for keeping a check on katilynn and when we get back from cincinnati next week i will send you a picture of katilynn sorry i havent gotton around to get.i will keep checking back to see how you all are doing and we send all are love and hugs and prayers you way.love kathy and katilynn

kathy and katilynn preston <katilynnsmom@yahoo.com>
t, k usa - Saturday, September 25, 2004 7:57 PM CDT


Hi Jess,
I'm so happy to hear of all of your "signs" and reap the rewards along with you.
Thank you so much for sharing what so many could not.

Love and prayers to you, Brian and Josh always,

Brenda Haggett <jhrufus@aol.com>
Syracuse, New York USA - Friday, September 24, 2004 2:25 PM CDT


Jess,
It's so nice that you continue the journal. I still enjoy reading every weeks update. I thought it so sweet that a young blonde girl was so excited to have the doll house. It so nice to see another child get that excited about a new toy to enjoy! So many take toys for granted! Hugs and Kisss to all of you!!
Love,
Patty

http://www.caringbridge.org/md/myjesse

Patty Taormino <wordinedge@aol.com>
Baltimore, MD USA - Thursday, September 23, 2004 8:13 PM CDT


Jessica, I've just read your post and what an amazing person you are. Thanks for continuing Kaity's website. I'll be sure to add it to one of my favorites. I'll also be sending you an email regarding the photos on Madison's webpage (caringbridge.org/nc/madisonlewis). I definitely need some help!!!
Paige - Madison's Mom

Paige Lewis <paigel@purolatorair.com>
Middlesex, NC USA - Wednesday, September 22, 2004 8:15 AM CDT


Jess/Brian your hearts are so big -I'm glad you have smiles when other little ones get pleasure from the toys Kaity played with! love and Hugs Laura
Laura Brodie <labro4will@yahoo.co.uk>
Birmingham, England - Tuesday, September 21, 2004 4:07 PM CDT


Jess/Brian your hearts are so big -I'm glad you have smiles when other little ones get pleasure from the toys Kaity played with! love and Hugs Laura
Laura Brodie <labro4will@yahoo.co.uk>
Birmingham, England - Tuesday, September 21, 2004 4:06 PM CDT


I am so sorry to here of your loss.Please know that you and your family are in my prayers.
Deidra Hicks <mpsllmommy@aol.com>
Metairie, La - Monday, September 20, 2004 10:31 PM CDT


Thank you for sharing your little girl with us. God Bless,
Sheila DeVolder
- Thursday, September 16, 2004 12:05 AM CDT


Jessica, Brian, Josh, & Kaity,
You are all very special. And you are loved very deeply. Our family is praying for you each day. Kaity's tree is beautiful, our love and prayers to all of your family.

Jennifer, Joshua, Jacob Burt www.caringbridge.org/wa/joshjakeburt <J_Burt9800@yahoo.com>
Walla Walla , WA 99362 - Tuesday, September 14, 2004 4:08 PM CDT


Jess thanks for the lovely Thankyou letter about the peace angel-I hope she brings you happy thoughts of Kaity.I have several like this that Lily has bought me they are very precious! love and Hugs Laura xx
Laura Brodie <labro4will@yahoo.co.uk>
Birmngham, England - Tuesday, September 14, 2004 3:59 PM CDT


Jessica, Kaity's tree is beautiful. Thank you for sharing it. Can't wait to hear about your visit with Debbie.
Sharon Cochenour <scochenour@hotmail.com>
Clarksburg, OH USA - Monday, September 13, 2004 7:25 PM CDT


Jess, the Kaity Tree is so beautiful. I'm so glad that you had several days to spend with Todd and his family and now Debbie is coming to visit, too. You have such a beautiful way with words.
Love Ya,
Kris and Kraiggy
Kraig's Journal

Kris Klenke <kris@mpssociety.org ** www.caringbridge.org/il/kraig/ **>
Worden, IL - Monday, September 13, 2004 10:02 AM CDT


kaity will always hold a special place in my heart. I know that she is running and having a ball with our Lord now.
Bob Lawalin <owlawal@aol.com>
corydon, IN USA - Sunday, September 12, 2004 5:52 PM CDT


Jessica, I've been reading your journal since you created it for Kaity-Bug and yourself. Just also wanted to thank you so much for making me feel like family at the MPS Forum even though my children were not diagnosed with MPS. I just know that Kaity is up there as a guardian angel looking over her mommy and at her great strength she has and how many families she's helped in similar circumstances. Thanks for being there to support all the families and those of us that come looking for answers even though we may not in the end have a child with MPS. :)

Michelle "MishLuvsHer2Boys" Enfield <menfield@ns.sympatico.ca>
Digby, NS Canada - Saturday, September 11, 2004 8:38 AM CDT


Hey Jess, I did read your last post! I forgot what day you would be updating. Bad Tami! Thank you so much for making "Kaity-Bug's" site. Your words help more me more than you will ever know. Thank you for being you and sharing your life and Kaity's with me!

Love and Hugs,

Tami <TLSlawson@aol.com>
La Verne , - Thursday, September 9, 2004 10:18 PM CDT


Hi Jess,

I just wanted to say, I have enjoyed following your journal about Kaity and all you feelings, and the things that happened along the way. You are a comapssionate and strong person who has been very blessed with a lot of understanding. I feel blessed to have met you through the forum and look forward to more conversations and meeting you in person in Dec.

Love,
Always,
Patty and Jesse

Patty Taormino <wordinedge@aol.com>
Baltimore, MD USA - Wednesday, September 8, 2004 12:11 AM CDT


Jessica, Thank you for sharing your precious Kaity with us. Your words are beautiful.
Sharon Cochenour <scochenour@hotmail.com>
Clarksburg, Ohio USA - Tuesday, September 7, 2004 4:43 PM CDT


Jessica, Thank you for sharing your precious Kaity with us. Your words are beautiful.
Sharon Cochenour <scochenour@hotmail.com>
Clarksburg, Ohio USA - Tuesday, September 7, 2004 4:43 PM CDT


Jess- I, too, like reading your words. You are such an inspiration to me.
Hugs,
Misty

Misty Van Nostrand <coreyvannostrand@netscape.net>
Lawrence, KS - Tuesday, September 7, 2004 10:29 AM CDT


Jess~ I have enjoyed reading your Journal every day. I will admit that I even wait for them, each time I check my computer durring the day, I check to see if there is a new entry on Kaity's page. I will miss the daily entries, but will be here Monday nights in anticipation of your next entry. You have a gift with words Jess. I imagine that all of the faithful readers of Kaity's site would say the same thing. Through your words we feel the love you have always had for Kaity, and the joy her life brought to all of us.
Love,
Jenn

Jennifer Restemayer <jennmarie@bis.midco.net>
Bismarck, ND USA - Tuesday, September 7, 2004 9:41 AM CDT


Hello
My name is Jenna and I came across your website. Kaitlynn, Was a very specail and precious little girl. Now she is a very precious and specail angel looking down on all who loved, cared, and miss her. Your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
www.caringbridge.org/canada/jenna

Jenna <hockeykid@telus.net>
Kamloops, BC Canada - Tuesday, September 7, 2004 1:05 AM CDT


I am so sorry for your pain and loss
I think you must have captured how a lot (way too many) moms who have had to endure outliving a child feel....

Chris - Gooch's mom
Share the Love (formerly Adopt a Kid's Site)
- Monday, September 6, 2004 8:52 PM CDT


Prayers coming your way.

Janelle (Alli's Nana)

Janelle Kunellis <shoe111550@yahoo.com>
- Monday, September 6, 2004 11:43 AM CDT


well now you made me think yet again!All the times I moan inside my head when Will gets up at 5am and then all the meds and things he needs for just a trip up the road! How very much we will miss this because like you its part of our lovely children.Kaity is thought of here every day as you are too love and Hugs Laura xxxx
Laura Brodie <labro4will@yahoo.co.uk>
Birmingham, England - Monday, September 6, 2004 11:41 AM CDT


Hi Jess,
Again I am here to find strength and courage from you. It feels so selfish and yet I am almost sure it is why you are here, to help us all in each of our trying times. I think of you and of Kaity-BUg, every morning when I wake up too, I put her preschool picture on my dresser to see each and every day in hopes of remembering her in her happy chilhood moments and to derive strength from her example as well as yours!
God Bless and my prayers always,
Love and hugs ,
Brenda

Brenda Haggett <jhrufus@aol.com>
Syracuse, New York USA - Sunday, September 5, 2004 11:14 PM CDT


Hi Jess .... Just wanted you to know that I am reading your journals!! I find myself waiting to see when you post again!!! They are very inspirational!!! Love you Brian, Jess and Josh!!!! And our sweet Angel Kaity!!!!
Kaitybug's Aunt Rhonda <rjapril@insighbb.com>
Jeffersonville, In - Sunday, September 5, 2004 1:37 PM CDT


I'm glad you have the peace to know that Kaity is in heaven .That burial time is what worries me most too love Laura xx
Laura Brodie <labro4will@yahoo.co.uk>
Birmingham, England - Sunday, September 5, 2004 7:05 AM CDT


Good Day Jess,

It's nice coming here to view the journal daily. I'm so glad you have been able to post it all to share with us. Thanks for all your caring and thoughts!
Love,
Patty and Jesse

Patty Taormino <wordinedge@aol.com>
Baltimore, MD USA - Saturday, September 4, 2004 8:07 PM CDT


Thank you Jessica for sharing your feelings with us. I wait each night for your posts.They seem to help with the long days hear at the hospital. You are a grate strenght for me.
I loved hearing from Aunt Rhonda yesterday.Its nice to know that there are others out there who understand and care.
Hugs

Shaun <zplane@charter.net www.caringbridge.org/or/haynes>
Klamath Falls, Or us - Friday, September 3, 2004 12:10 AM CDT


Thank you for sharing Kaity with us. You gave her a life of dignity, grace and beauty. May the Lord comfort you.
Stephanie & RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net>
- Thursday, September 2, 2004 11:40 PM CDT


HELLO JESSICA MY BEST FRIEND IT HAS BEEN HARD FOR ME TO MAKE THIS STEP TO THE FORUM, TODAY GOD GAVE ME THE COURAGE TO TRY, I JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW I AM HERE FOR YOU NOW AND FOREVER, KATILYN HOLDS A SPECIAL PART IN MY HEART THAT NO ONE COULD EVER KNOW AND NOW I SHARE THAT PART WITH MY NEW ANGEL WITH GOD....LOVE DONNA PURVIS
DONNAPURVIS <TalkerDP@AOL.COM>
CORYDON, IN - Tuesday, August 31, 2004 5:33 PM CDT


Art's words are so beautiful, thank you for sharing them with us here. Kaity is such a blessing to all those who knew her.
Love Ya,
Kris and Kraiggy
Kraig's Journal

Kris Klenke <kris@mpssociety.org ** www.caringbridge.org/il/kraig/ **>
Worden, IL - Tuesday, August 31, 2004 12:18 AM CDT


Thankyou for sharing Art's words with us -he is such a blessing to us all Laura x
Laura Brodie <labro4will@yahoo.co.uk>
Birmingham, England - Tuesday, August 31, 2004 2:40 AM CDT


One of the most precious moments we have with our children is being with them as they are born, and then as they leave this earth. Thank you for finding the strength to share Kaity with us. Your words are beautiful.
Sharon Cochenour <scochenour@hotmail.com>
Clarksburg, OH USA - Monday, August 30, 2004 4:54 PM CDT


Dearest Jessica,
It is so very clear in your words how much Kaity is with you every moment of the day, I could not imagine any more peace. God Bless you Jessica, and Brian and Josh. May you always feel the peace that Kaity now feels and surrounds each of you with.
Love and prayers always,

Brenda Haggett <jhrufus@aol.com>
Syracuse, New York USA - Sunday, August 29, 2004 2:40 PM CDT


Jess- Irish folklaw says that the rainbow is the pathway between this world and the next- love and Hugs Lauraxxx
Laura Brodie <labro4will@yahoo.co.uk>
Birmingham, England - Sunday, August 29, 2004 4:03 AM CDT


Jessica,
Thank you for signing Julia's guestbook. I am so very sorry for your loss. I have just finished reading Kaity's site and learned how we shared some same feelings during our daughter's illness and final days and moments. I'll never forget the peace I felt when Julia passed in my arms and the smile that was on my face. I truly believe that only a mother who was worn our shoes can understand what we felt. I am glad you are journalling. It is very therapeutic for me as well. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and will try to keep up with your journalling.

Your friend,
Judy
Mom of Angel Julia
www.caringbridge.org/pa/julialevy
www.tumbleweedfoundation.com

Judy <levyjudy4@comcast.net>
Pittsburgh, PA - Saturday, August 28, 2004 12:48 AM CDT


Hi Jess. I now know I need to read your entries everyday. They uplift me. Thank you. Shellbell
Shelly Friese <composing@seidata.com>
Corydon, IN 47112 - Saturday, August 28, 2004 9:33 AM CDT


Jess your words/feelings are beautiful (like Kaity)-Thanks for sharing love and Hugs Laura
Laura Brodie <labro4will@yahoo.co.uk>
Birmingham, England - Friday, August 27, 2004 8:13 AM CDT


Jessica, Thanks for sharing your story of kaity. At times, it is hard for me to read. It's like looking into the future and seeing what Destiny's final moments will be like. Putting myself in your place, I know you will find comfort in knowing she is in heaven, surrounded by other angels, running, laughing, playing, etc, doing the things she could no longer do here on earth. I may never get to hear Destiny utter a word, or walk, sit up, or anything, but when it's her time, the comfort of knowing she will be able to do them will bring comfort. I'm just glad that it went so beautifully for you and pray that my experience will be as beautiful, though I hope that time doesn't come for a long, long time.
Rhonda Cissell <destinynkh@wmconnect.com>
Ramsey, IN USA - Wednesday, August 25, 2004 10:23 PM CDT


hi jessica
i just wanted to stop by and tell you that you are still in my thought and my prayers and my god bless you and keep you with all the great memories that you and kaitlynn had together we are so greatful that you can write about this wonderful feel that you had when kaity went home to be with god thank you so much for telling us about it.hugs and kisses kathy and katilynn preston

katilynn and katilynn preston <katilynnsmom@yahoo.com>
tomahawk, ky 41262 - Wednesday, August 25, 2004 1:29 PM CDT


Dearest Family.
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find peace and comfort in the beautiful memories of your precious child and in knowing that they are home, healed and in heaven tonight.
God Bless you all,
Island Princess

Butterfly Island

Island Princess <mooks@bellsouth.net>
- Wednesday, August 25, 2004 12:17 AM CDT


I remember holding my own Hurler angel, 13 months old, as he took his last breath. Our experiences were somewhat different, but your words echo my own feelings. I wish I could say "I can only imagine your pain" but I do know your pain. I also know your peace in knowing your child is no longer suffering.. she's running around... happy and healthy. She lived her life just as God planned for her and in her 13 years touched many people and brought so many together. ^^REESE^^ has come to me several times in my dreams. The latest ones have shown me that he's exactly where he's supposed to be. He no longer has scars from the surgeries, he has his hair back, and no more kyphosis. He plays peek-a-boo with me and smiles at me just like he used to. I pray you have those same wonderful dreams and that the peace you know right now continues to grow more real.

I urge you to continue your journal. ^^REESE^^ died on March 10, 2003 and I still journal. Not as often anymore but it has helped me and others contact me through his site with encouraging words just when I need them the most.

May God continue to cover you with His grace...

Shawn, Taylor, & ^^REESE^^ Coble (www.caringbridge.org/nc/reesecup) <selboc@aol.com>
Winston Salem, NC - Wednesday, August 25, 2004 11:28 AM CDT


Dear Jessica,
I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you and that your journal is one of the most beautiful things I have read, and a testament to Kaity's beautiful soul which is still here with all of us. God bless you and your family. I hope you are enjoying your visit with your niece. With much love and hope to all,

Claudina <claubonetti@aol.com>
Durham, NC - Wednesday, August 25, 2004 8:30 AM CDT


Dear Jessica,
That sounds like the most beautiful and perfect moment that you could possibly have had besides the moment she was born. The peace you felt is so clearly conveyed through your words and your spirit. I am so relieved that you and Kaity shared that heavenly moment before she went home.

Brenda Haggett <jhrufus@aol.com>
Syracuse, New York USA - Tuesday, August 24, 2004 10:11 PM CDT


Jessica,

Your documentary of your experience has been beautiful!! I was "lucky" enough to experience this same type of thing when my father died on 12/4/98. I will NEVER forget the love and peace that was in that room. At one point, I swear I was hugged and held by some one, something, although my back was against a wall and it was physically impossible for anyone to touch me. It is hard to expleain the feelings that were in that room, the look on my Dad's face, the experience in general to some one who has not felt that peace.

You have been touched in many ways!!

God bless you and your family-

Cindy Fehon
Sicklerville, NJ USA - Tuesday, August 24, 2004 8:47 AM CDT


THANK YOU JESSICA
Paulina Jump and Andrew Jump MPS IIIB <caljump@msn.com http://hometown.aol.com/paulinajump/myhomepage/family.html>
SPARTA, KY USA - Tuesday, August 24, 2004 7:17 AM CDT


Jess,

I have been out of town for the weekend but I wanted you to know I do check on you everyday!!! I'm having a good cry right now! I'm ready for an October party! hehehehe

Love and Hugs,

Tami ( www.caringbridge.com/ca/slawson ) <TLSlawson@aol.com>
- Monday, August 23, 2004 4:42 PM CDT


Dear Jess,
Your words only get more beautiful by the day, thank you for sharing your last moments with Kaity with all of us.
I came here to check in and leave you some words of support and am leaving with more comfort for myself thanks to you and your faith and Kaity's ever bright light!!
I love you so much and know how blessed I am to have crossed paths with you in this life.
Love and prayers,

Brenda Haggett-ML III mom <jhrufus@aol.com>
Syracuse, New York USA - Sunday, August 22, 2004 10:37 PM CDT


Jess,

I wanted to say that I've been visiting your journal and thinking about you lately. My prayers are still going out for you and your family. It seems as if you handling things really well. I know that is God taking care of you. You are a very special mom and also a very special person to me and everyone that comes to MPS forum. My heart sings songs of joy for you and your family. Hug Josh lots.. I'm sure he'll appreciate it even at 19.. I know my 21 year old son still does. :-)

Love,
Patty


Patty Taormino <wordinedge@aol.com>
Baltimore, MD USA - Sunday, August 22, 2004 8:15 PM CDT


Just wanted you to know that I've been thinking about you guys. Thank you for sharing your experience so openly with all of us. You are AMAZING!!!!!!!!!
Love Ya,
Kris and Kraiggy
Kraig's Journal

Kris Klenke <kris@mpssociety.org ** www.caringbridge.org/il/kraig/ **>
Worden, IL - Sunday, August 22, 2004 1:21 PM CDT


Jess,

Peace comes to those who waits. You write beautifully. I hope that your words comfort others going through the same thing.

Love you,
Rebecca

Rebecca -- Kaity Wellman's Aunt!!!!!
Milltown, IN USA - Sunday, August 22, 2004 9:27 AM CDT


Jessica, I know I have said it before, but you are a truly remarkable individual. Your ability to write so freely about your emotions moves me in ways that I can not express and gives me hope that one day I follow in your footsteps.
Jennifer
Oakville, Canada - Friday, August 20, 2004 2:48 PM CDT


Jessica,
Please keep writing. You have a way with words. The story about Donna was amazing. The sermon at my church Sunday was about heaven also. Kaity and you and your family has really inspired me.

Holly Weddell <weddell2031@hotmail.com>
Vallonia, IN USA - Friday, August 20, 2004 2:33 PM CDT


Jess~ Donna's experience gave me goosebumps. I have always believed that there is a Heaven, but every once in a while, we all need a reminder or a reassurance that there really IS a Heaven. Thank you for writing this in Kaity's Journal, and thanks for my reminder today! I needed it!
Alli and Ashley each had a bag of M&M's last night coutesy of "My friend Jessica" as Alli says! You are too Sweet Too!
Love you!
Jenn

Jennifer Restemayer <jennmarie@bis.midco.net>
Bismarck, ND USA - Friday, August 20, 2004 9:33 AM CDT


Just wanted to say I'm thinking of you. I've never met you, but I feel I know you anyway. When I get the news about Kaity, I get tears in my eyes.
Vibeke Hovd <vibekehovd@hotmail.com>
Norway - Thursday, August 19, 2004 2:21 PM CDT


Still thinking about you and praying for your peace.
Brenda Haggett <jhrufus@aol.com>
Syracuse, New York USA - Thursday, August 19, 2004 12:13 AM CDT


THINKING OF YOU ALWAYS
Paulina Jump and Andrew Jump MPS IIIB <caljump@msn.com http://hometown.aol.com/paulinajump/myhomepage/family.html>
SPARTA, KY USA - Thursday, August 19, 2004 8:01 AM CDT


Jessica and family
My deepest sympathy to you all. I just read about the loss of your Angel, I will pray for you ...

The Jawad Family <zade_i@yahoo.com>
Champaign, Il usa - Wednesday, August 18, 2004 9:30 PM CDT


Jessica, your words are very powerful. Only a loss of someone so pure could create such emotion. Your journey has been long and the peace you feel does not need to be explained or argued, only appreciated. We too know the discomfort that comes with the reality of relief at the end. There is no doubt that there is a better place for souls so innocent than in the bodies of suffering children. We are thinking of you very much, and of your beautiful daughter, and of your amazing strength and compassion. Kindest regards,
Mike Ciacciarelli (Mighty-Max's Dad) and Family <mmchick@comcast.net www.Mighty-Max.com>
- Tuesday, August 17, 2004 11:39 PM CDT


I hope you do find the strength to write Kaity's beautiful story and share with those of us on the same pathway! Love and Hugs to you all Laura xxx
Laura Brodie <labro4will@yahoo.co.uk>
Birmingham, England - Tuesday, August 17, 2004 5:28 PM CDT


Aunt Rhonda had a moment today!! I miss my sweet Kaitybug so much! Hugs and Kisses are sent to Jess, Brian and Josh!
Kaity's Aunt Rhonda <rjapril@insightbb.com>
Jeffersonville , IN USA - Tuesday, August 17, 2004 3:33 PM CDT


Thinking of you today! Sending hugs an kisses your way!
Love,
Jenn& Alli

Jennifer Restemayer <jennmarie@bis.midco.net>
Bismarck, ND USA - Monday, August 16, 2004 9:04 PM CDT


I'm somewhat behind in checking into my webpage families. I am so very sorry about Kaity. I hope the days are bringing you more peace. Please know we are thinking of you. kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net *and* www.caringbridge.org/nc/lindseysmpsjourney>
Albemarle, NC USA - Sunday, August 15, 2004 5:22 PM CDT


I am so glad that I got to go to Kaity's Angel Homecoming. It was so nice of you to include the MPS families in the butterfly release, and the signing and the release of the ballons. It was lovely to see them as they danced away to heaven. It was beautiful.
Sharon Cochenour <scochenour@hotmail.com>
Clarksburg, Ohio USA - Saturday, August 14, 2004 12:15 AM CDT



I love you, Jess! Kaity's service was absolutely beautiful and I am so honored that I got to be there. Kaity is beautiful, she accomplished so much in her lifetime. (((HUGS))) and Kisses to you and your family.

Love Ya,
Kris and Kraiggy
Kraig's Journal

Kris Klenke <kris@mpssociety.org ** www.caringbridge.org/il/kraig/ **>
Worden, IL - Saturday, August 14, 2004 8:41 AM CDT